Friday 2 January 2009

WANTOK

Already I’ve started drawing comparisons between PNG and Africa. I’ve discovered some similarities like the weather, community culture and the wantok (another new pigeon word meaning friendship.) The wantok system is very common in Africa also, it’s like an unspoken rule. When you make a friend or have grown up alongside someone, if they come under some kind of difficulty you look after them by feeding them, sharing with them, letting them live in your house, whatever they need. If the same happens to you they must return the favour. This wantok system plays a huge part in the PNG culture because they're so community based. If a local is going into town for the day to do something important and they meet a friend they haven't seen in a while along the way, they'll stop and chat. They'll forget about what they have to do in town because their way of thinking is completely relational.

This made me think about home and how we're so driven by our schedules, to-do lists and calanders. Don't get me wrong sometimes things need to get done, but it wouldn't hurt to slow down sometimes and try a bit of wantok.

Emma x

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Great post Flannel Face. When I first read it I thought it said "their way of thinking is completely rational" not relational. And yet both fit.

Was thinking the other night about Jesus and how he either seemed to spend his time alone intentionally with God, or with people. Never just farting about. Totally relational

Keep up the good blog!

Unknown said...

Hey Emma Darlin,
I am enjoying your wee blog so much that i went and set up a google mail account so that i could comment. Love the recent post, those guys seem to have the right idea, chatting to friends is far more important than important meetings! Especially if that chatting is in starbucks! Think i prefer the photo of the first star fish the blue one kinda grossed me out a wee bit! So happy fishing and diving and laying about in the sun and playing with Nya and letting on to be a english teacher! So sweetie, love Ya. B